Time Links

Linda G Hill’s Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “link.”

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My Dad

used to tell the best stories about his family’s history.

Most of his stories came from the extensive work my Great Grandfather did when he traced his family tree- that was no small thing because this was way before we had the internet and his family history was massively extensive.

I was surprised when I signed up for one of those family tree sites and started to build my own tree to discover how much my Great Grandfather had gotten right without the benefit of technology to aid him.

So my Dad could colorfully connect all of these links to our past and what great links they were!

One of my Great Great Uncles actually moved to Australia with his wife and children and was a Minister. He went back to England and his grave actually turned up on a website. It turns out that my Great Uncle was a successful attorney before he was a Minister and his change in vocation had something to do with what he experienced in War.

The stories were endless- the names were even interesting- I had Aunts in the 18oo’s name Patience and Experience. Their father’s name was- wait for it- Lancelot.

Part of our family fought in the American Revolution and others stayed in England and later moved to Canada. There were stories about Knights and mysterious deaths and drownings. Some of them performed in Vaudville acts and were Magicians. There were even stories about being witnesses to exorcisms and wives who turned out to not be who they said they were and bodies buried in a basement of a home one of my relatives bought.

They kept the house despite the fact it had an unsavory past and years and years later when I came along when I was little I used to beg like a thing possessed to go down into the ‘basement graveyard’ to look around for- I don’t know. More bodies I guess. I was probably 5 or 6 at the time.

The basement floor was hard packed earth and the lightbulb would make a sizzle sound just before it went out, so I had to hit the steps and race upstairs before I was plunged into darkness.

I was enchanted by these stories and used to ask to hear them over and over again and with each story I could feel the links to the past snap together and with that the sense I knew were I came from and where I could go.

One day I said that I wanted to write, just like one of my distant reletives did. It didn’t seem like a reach. My entire family are natural born story tellers.

And my Dad- who was never really crazy about me for his own reasons- one being that I was sort of a freaky thing who looked for corpses in the dark- looked at me and said- ” Well, you know what they say. The light bulb burns brightest before it burns out.”

To this day I can hear those links snap one by one and heard them hit the ground like stones.

13 thoughts on “Time Links

  1. J-Dub – Sleepy Little Town Down Around San Antone – I am a quirky, sentimental, sap who loves to read, write, and listen to music. Freedom of expression is a number one priority. I'd love to hear what you have to say too! All thoughts are welcome here.
    J-Dub

    I miss my parents and grandparents who were great story tellers too. I wish I had recorded my grandma before she passed away. I remember sitting in her living room as she told stories that had us all glued to our seats.

    • I was lucky, my Grandparents actually taught me how to tell stories…little things like how to stand or should I sit? When to tell stories… before or after dinner, what kind of stories to tell when it was Sunny. It was a process and an invaluable one!
      Plus, in our family people who could spin good stories had eveyone”s attention…didn’t matter how old you were. They really seemed to value those members.

      • J-Dub – Sleepy Little Town Down Around San Antone – I am a quirky, sentimental, sap who loves to read, write, and listen to music. Freedom of expression is a number one priority. I'd love to hear what you have to say too! All thoughts are welcome here.
        J-Dub

        Sounds delightful 🙂

  2. Loved hearing about some of your interesting family members. Wish I knew more about mine. Had to laugh that you wanted to go to the basement to look for bodies! Sounds line me at my grand parents house. I knew the house was haunted, and especially the dirt floor garage, where I would sneak into to look for ghosts! 🙂

  3. One of my biggest regrets was that I never asked my parents to talk to me about their stories. I am a first generation American and I would love, now, to have heard stories about their young lives in the old country and how they came to America in the early 20th century, how they met once here, etc. I was too self absorbed at the time and now it’s too late.

    • I think you have a great place to start their story..
      With yours! It’d be research, but finding their stories would be an adventure in itself.
      ….

  4. I love the old family stories. I believe we learn to appreciate the connection to past generations more as we get older.

    • Family stories are the best! And it’s true we appreciate our past as we age, that’s why it’s impotant to share our stories. It makes that time tangible.

  5. willowdot21 – Berkshire – Female, wife, full time mother and Grandmother. I am not as happy go lucky as I used to be but I am still bubbling along on simmer! I have three handsome sons all grown and flown.The youngest married with a beautiful wife and two sons of his own. Back in 2010 I was working, running a home, driving and socializing then bang in a split second all that was gone. I had an accident at home. I broke my back, not for the first time, I had broken it 10 years previously as well. Unfortunately this time I had broken it really badly and it was truly messed up so I had to have two operations. I was told before each operation that the outcome could mean I spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair. Still as some guy once wrote "I am still standing " yes "better than I ever was " I no longer use the walking stick . I had lots of friends before the accident but when things like this happen, you loose most of them. Their lives move on and mine stood still and so they left me behind ...I know that is just the way life is but it hurt and always will. Then I looked around and saw those who were still there for me, these friends are the roses in my garden they need to be tended well. They are the diamonds in the dust. I will of been married 53yrs this comming year. I have found different ways to approach life, use my pain befriend it almost...yer right , well that is what they tell me at the pain clinic ROFLMAO ...... if only I could! I have found an outlet for my fears, frustrations and night terrors . I have started writing poetry if that name can be applied to my writing. I hope I do not come over as a moaning winger. I hope I am past all that. I also hope that you might see how the poetry is moving from very dark through the grey and hopefully in to light. My back is no longer straight it is C shaped because of the injury and I have lost two and a half inches in height but my Pilates and Core teachers have helped me to stand up as straight and be as strong as possible. Pain and depression are still hanging on my arm but I have weapons to use against them and if I say so myself I cope well. I have made lots of new friends, real diamonds. I am also very grateful for all the support and help I have encountered here on Wordpress. Hugs and welcome to everyone who visits.
    willowdot21

    Very interesting blog I enjoyed it. BTW your dad was wrong you are a good writer you got my interest in the first sentence and kept hold of me there after 💜

    • I am very happy you enjoyed my blog!
      My Dad had his own demos to deal with and that was,sad.
      Luckily we improved our relationship before he died, but the time we lost before that was tragic.

      • willowdot21 – Berkshire – Female, wife, full time mother and Grandmother. I am not as happy go lucky as I used to be but I am still bubbling along on simmer! I have three handsome sons all grown and flown.The youngest married with a beautiful wife and two sons of his own. Back in 2010 I was working, running a home, driving and socializing then bang in a split second all that was gone. I had an accident at home. I broke my back, not for the first time, I had broken it 10 years previously as well. Unfortunately this time I had broken it really badly and it was truly messed up so I had to have two operations. I was told before each operation that the outcome could mean I spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair. Still as some guy once wrote "I am still standing " yes "better than I ever was " I no longer use the walking stick . I had lots of friends before the accident but when things like this happen, you loose most of them. Their lives move on and mine stood still and so they left me behind ...I know that is just the way life is but it hurt and always will. Then I looked around and saw those who were still there for me, these friends are the roses in my garden they need to be tended well. They are the diamonds in the dust. I will of been married 53yrs this comming year. I have found different ways to approach life, use my pain befriend it almost...yer right , well that is what they tell me at the pain clinic ROFLMAO ...... if only I could! I have found an outlet for my fears, frustrations and night terrors . I have started writing poetry if that name can be applied to my writing. I hope I do not come over as a moaning winger. I hope I am past all that. I also hope that you might see how the poetry is moving from very dark through the grey and hopefully in to light. My back is no longer straight it is C shaped because of the injury and I have lost two and a half inches in height but my Pilates and Core teachers have helped me to stand up as straight and be as strong as possible. Pain and depression are still hanging on my arm but I have weapons to use against them and if I say so myself I cope well. I have made lots of new friends, real diamonds. I am also very grateful for all the support and help I have encountered here on Wordpress. Hugs and welcome to everyone who visits.
        willowdot21

        Yes I can fully understand that 😊

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