The Architecture of Acceptance

I wish I had learned early in life that it was okay to not be good enough, to not be able to measure up to other people’s expectations. Acceptance and the quiet imperfections of myself are part of my landscape too, and I should have never given anyone permission to go in there and build what they wanted.

Blow Blow Thou Winter Wind
John Everett Millais1892

Cold Case: Love, Jealousy, and a Missing Schoolmaster

Experience Writing Halloween Flash Fiction Prompt: Jack-O-Lantern

John Quidor

There was a rumor, just a story, that Brom Bones scared Ichabod Crane out of Sleepy Hollow because the fair Katrina Van Tassel wanted Brom Bones to get off the dime and marry her already.

So Katrina, it is said, used Ichabod as a pawn and convinced Brom that Ichabod was a rival for her affections.

Consumed with rage, Brom dressed up as the Headless Horseman and chased Ichabod out of Sleepy Hollow. In fact, Brom Bones as the Headless Horseman chased him with such fury that Ichabod (it is said) is probably still riding his horse in a blind panic.

I spent last weekend watching The Murder Channel, so as I considered this case I went off the rails and came up with a plot for murder:

At the center of this story is an heiress, Katrina Van Tassel.

Now, we know these rich girls are used to getting their way. When Brom—who was quite the ladies’ man—kept toying with Katrina’s affections, she decided at some point that something about her situation had to be done.

She wanted that ring on her finger, she wanted babies, and she wanted what she wanted YESTERDAY.

Brom wanted her affection, but in all probability, he wanted her sizeable inheritance even more.

Katrina came up with a plan. She began to lavish affection and attention on the new guy in town: one Ichabod Crane. A slightly bookish, not terribly handsome or adventurous gentleman who was the town’s new Schoolmaster.

When Brom thought there was the possibility that Katrina could end up becoming “Mrs. Crane,” his blood boiled and then it spilled over.

It’s believed that he dressed up as the Headless Horseman and chased Ichabod out of town, and Ichabod was never seen or heard of again.

The Headless Horseman still haunts Sleepy Hollow, and that’s a fact.

But I’m wondering now: who is the Headless Horseman that haunts Sleepy Hollow? The legend says he was a Hessian trooper who got his head blown off by a cannonball and rides in search of his missing head.

It’s a good story, but maybe the facts could take us somewhere else.

Jamie Wyeth ” Warm Halloween “

Ichabod’s whereabouts after the incident on the bridge are a mystery. Townspeople claim he went on to live a quiet life in another town, Katrina never had much to say and Brom Bones just walked around town with a smug look on his face.

All we know for sure is that Ichabod, an outsider came between the town Heiress, her beau who was a local guy and one day he was chased off the face of the Earth by a Demonic figure in search of his missing head.

I think that maybe- just maybe if there is a ghostly figure who rides the roads of Sleepy Hallow, it’s not a Solidier whose head was blown off by a canon ball.

Maybe that figure is a bookish looking man with a broken neck, terror etched onhis face, looking for a grave to call his own.

 

 

 

 

Cemetery Tours, Bees, and Neighborhood Pirates

Experience Writing Halloween Photo Prompt: Take a picture of your celebration.

Halloween is a very special time for me, and the years I took my granddaughters to explore their first cemetery is a VERY BIG deal to me.

This year, my grandbaby Luna (she’s dressed as a bee, and my older granddaughter is a zombie cheerleader) took her first cemetery tour on a haunted hayride.

It was during the day, but it was fun.

One of the other passengers had family buried at the cemetery we toured that go back to the early 1900s, so I consider the stories he told a bonus.

Like he’d point out a gravestone and say that was his great-grandparent or distant cousin who passed away young. He had a lot of family to point out who passed from the 1900s all the way up to about 10 years ago.

Photo A.M. Moscoso
Spooktacular
Fox Lake WI
2026

Photo A.M. Moscoso
Spooktacular
Fox Lake WI
2026

Photo A.M. Moscoso
Spooktacular
Fox Lake WI
2026

My son has a picture of him and Jemma at her first Spooktacular. She was dressed as a ladybug, and she was throwing a fit.

Julio had the picture taken despite her strong feelings about the moment because he said this was his memory of him and Jemma’s first Halloween event, and he wanted it saved.

I’m glad to say that the girls and their cousin Jayde were in higher spirits than Jemma was 7 years ago.

Photo A.M. Moscoso
Spooktacular
Fox Lake WI
2026

Normally Julio, my son,  dresses up, but this time he couldn’t find his mask. Lucky for him, one of his neighbors is a pirate and loaned Julio a prop to pose with. At least I think it was a prop gun. Hard to say—this gentleman dresses like this every day.

Photo A.M. Moscoso
Spooktacular
Fox Lake WI
2026

I did have a great Halloween this year- I’m already getting ready for 2027 and I’ll go full on with that once I get by Christmas!

Photo A.M. Moscoso

Carved in Time: A Gallery of Jack-o’-Lanterns

Experience Writing Halloween Photography Prompt: Take a picture of a jack-o-lantern.

Photo A.M. Moscoso
January 2012

Here, in no particular order, are the jack-o’-lanterns that have found their way into my life:

Photo A.M. Moscoso
October 2024

Photo A.M. Moscoso
October 2025

Photo A.M. Moscoso
October 2024

A.M. Moscoso
October 2024

Hamish Macbeth
Halloween 2022

Hamish Macbeth
AM Moscoso
October 2017

Photo A.M. Moscoso

Photo A.M. Moscoso
“Jemma”
October

Jeamma carving a pumpkin at her school: